It’s valentines day and we started the day with fight. Not me, but my husband. With his sister. And basically everyday. HhHHHHh.

Getting older, the more I learn that, the only thing we should keep improving is our ability to hold our tongue. To think before we speak. If everyone in this entire world decided to spoke whatever it is they want, just really speak it out, without single filter, it’s only will lead us to the world of anger. And no one wins. No one get those little crazy thing called peace. So for whom is all this fight for? only to feed our egos? without noticing the damaged that it caused?

Is it really that hurt to say sorry?

marriageis:

Hi. In case you’ve forgotten, I’m Hannah, and I run the marriageis blog. I’m 25 and married to a man, we’ll call him N. We’ve been married for about a year and a half. 

I know this blog has been short form, but that’s not cutting it for me. I come from a writing background, and it’s time to expand. Bear with me. 

I’m 25, and 25 is the age where you start going to a lot of weddings. What I’ve noticed lately is I’ve been going to so many weddings where I just sit there, at the beautiful ceremony, listening to the beautiful words, and find myself wondering, “Why are you doing this? Why are you getting married?” 

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marriageis:

Marriage is talking things through and listening, even when all you want to do is not speak to that person indefinitely.

Couldn’t put that in better way.